I started my gratitude practice as my mother was wading into dementia, as a way to stay connected, compassionate, and sane. The more I notice the good things, the happier I seem to be. I really resonated with this blog from my friend Karen Rowinsky and I wanted to share it with you.
Making a List of What’s Going Right
From Guest Blogger Karen Rowinsky
Can’t catch a break?
Nothing seems to be going your way?
If you are having one of those days, weeks, or months, this tip is for you.
Start with real things that are going right like:
- Even though my head hurts, my feet don’t.
- I don’t know where the mortgage payment will come from but at least no one in the family is sick.
- My spouse is really getting on my nerves but at least I know he or she will be there in a pinch.
- Stress at work is getting me down but it’s not raining and I can get outside for a breather.
Once you have gotten some “at leasts…..” on your list, then begin adding things that are positive or funny:
- I have good friends.
- My dog loves me.
- I have food to eat today.
- I’m having a good hair day.
- No one has “unfriended” me on Facebook lately.
Karen Rowinsky, LSCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker.
Deborah Shouse is the author of Love in the Land of Dementia: Finding Hope in the Caregiver’s Journey.