KC Memory Cafe Creates The Sounds of Music: A Visit from the Kansas City Symphony

May 22, 2018

If there’s anything more fun than a one-man band, it’s a one-woman orchestra. On May 15, Margaret Halloin graced the cafe with an astonishing array of instruments. She invoked our inner Itzhak when she introduced us to the versatility of the violin. One moment she used a series of chords to transport us to a…

Celebrating our Mothers 

May 8, 2018

If my mother were still alive, I would be taking her roses and chocolate this Mother’s Day. She would be delighted and her delight would magnify when my daughters and her great-grandchildren arrived. Love is such a beautiful glue, such a simple and strong way to stay connected. I wanted to share this story from Love in the…

KC Memory Cafe: Great Weather Information Inspires Great Conversations

May 1, 2018

Karli Ritter is a self-described “weather nerd.” When this Fox 4 meteorologist finished her lively talk at April’s KC Memory Cafe, we all had a bit of that “weather nerd” fever in us. We listened intently as Karli described her early morning routine, up at 4:30 a.m., studying the weather maps and data so she…

Movies and Memories: Laughter Triumphs Over Weather

April 24, 2018

It’s a Sunday morning in early April and we were excited about our Movies and Memories laughter program that afternoon at 2:00. Then, the unthinkable happened. It started to snow, blanketing the daffodils and tulips with just enough flakes to make people want to cozy up at home.  What did we do? Laugh, of course.…

The Power of Play in the Dementia Journey

April 10, 2018

Josh Rice, a theatre maker and teaching artist,  discovered the power of play in the dementia journey when he was still in graduate school.  As part of a school project, he partnered with a senior living community on a therapeutic puppetry and improv-based program for people living with dementia. Together, Josh and the seniors designed…

A Memorable Meeting: KC Memory Cafe

March 27, 2018

You know what it’s like, creating a program series for the first time. You try to think of everything, knowing that you’ve probably left something out. You hope plenty of people will attend and worry that no one will show up. The weather teases you, threatening snow or rain, thunder or wind. The “what if’s”…

Educating on Dementia: A Vietnamese Doctor’s Quest

March 20, 2018

Throughout our journey in Vietnam, we met a number of inspiring elders. These include an 87-year-old public letter writer in the old Saigon train station, a 67-year-old woman carrying baskets of pomelos and bitter melons, a beautiful 74-year-old gardener hacking at weeds with a machete, a 100-year-old matriarch in a farming family, and an 83-year-old…

Using His Voice and His Skills:  Mike Belleville’s Tips for Living Well with Dementia

March 6, 2018

“Here’s some medication,” the neurologist told Mike Belleville. “See you in six months.” The doctor stood up to leave, but Mike just sat there, exhausted from months of struggle and confusion, worn ragged from all the tests and consultations. For months, Mike, age 52, had been “hiding under a rock.” His mind wasn’t working right and…

Dementia in the Land of Vietnam

February 27, 2018

“We are here to see Dr. Nguyen Thanh Binh, head of the Department of Neuroloy and Alzheimer Diseaese,” I tell the guard at the National Geriatric Hospital of Vietnam in Hanoi, showing him my folded paper with her name printed on it. He grins, then points to a full size sheet of paper in the…

 Transferring Skills and Adapting Purpose: Wisdom from Paulan Gordon

February 20, 2018

As Director of Operations for a national call center, Paulan Gordon’s work required an intense travel schedule, detailed project management skills, and a rigorous adherence to industry standards. So when she started feeling confused, she attributed the struggles to stress. Some days, she felt so overwhelmed that she locked herself in her office and called…

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